Bereavement Notice: Anne Laboe

With sadness, we have learned of the death of Anne F. Laboe, the mother of Mark Laboe, Interim Vice President of Mission and Ministry. Anne passed away on December 17 at the age of 82 after a long illness.

A teacher and a linguist, Anne taught high school French at both Catholic Central High School in Monroe, Michigan and Bedford High School in Temperance, Michigan, receiving multiple outstanding educator awards. After retiring, she translated several books about the appearances of the Virgin Mary in Medjugorje, Bosnia from French to English.

Anne was an avid fan of reading, baking, and crafting. But mostly she served with her intellect and faith in the Monroe community as a board members of various organizations, and especially at St. Mary’s Parish in Monroe, of which she was Christian Women President for 6 years. She practiced forgiveness, humility, kindness and generosity. She was fun-loving and loyal to her friends and loved playing games and spending time with her grandchildren.

Anne is survived by her husband of 59 years, six children, twelve grandchildren, and many extended family and friends.

Visitation will take place on Thursday, December 26 from 3 – 7 p.m. at Rupp Funeral Home in Monroe, Michigan. Funeral on Friday, December 27; 10 a.m. at Rupp Funeral Home, followed by Mass at 11 a.m. at St. Mary Catholic Parish and interment at St. Joseph Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be directed to the St. Mary of Monroe Parish Christian Women or to Cure PSP (www.psp.org).

A full obituary with service details and a tribute wall for online condolences may be found at https://www.ruppfuneralhomeinc.com/obituary/Anne-C-Laboe.

Love Shows Up in Community

Reflection by: Erin Herrmann, Associate Director, Writing Center

Photo by Mike Labrum, Unsplash.com

“I believe that you work with one another to grow in perfection in keeping with the divine plan. All the actions of our lives can serve this purpose even those which might appear destined to withdraw you from that intimate union with God which you so ardently desire. Very often this union is established in us through no action of our own in a manner known only to God and not as we would wish to imagine it.” — Louise de Marillac[1]

When I began my role at DePaul in the summer of 2017, I was excited but also nervous. As an associate director, I felt responsible to represent the Writing Center well. As I started attending meetings with people from departments across campus, I felt intimidated; everyone knew so much and knew one another quite well. What could I contribute to this tight-knit community as someone so new, practically still an outsider?

Fast forward to autumn quarter 2024, which was perhaps my busiest quarter to date in my time at DePaul. Now in my eighth academic year, I found this quarter offered numerous ways in which I could readily contribute as part of the vibrant DePaul community: teaching two courses on top of my full-time staff role, serving as chair of the Communication Committee for Staff Council, and completing training as a staff professional for FY@broad with Study Abroad. While these commitments meant significant time and seemingly innumerable meetings and tasks added to my calendar, they also shared something else in common. These opportunities, alongside my daily work in the Writing Center collaborating with colleagues and supporting our student employees, were purposefully busy.

I define purposefully busy as those tasks that are more than productivity; rather, they are people-centered activities that enable me to serve others through the work. All the while, I, too, am being fed through my interactions with students, faculty, and staff who offer care and collaboration. As Saint Louise de Marillac says in the quote above, we must work with one another to fulfill our purposes.

In my life outside of work, I was experiencing emotional difficulty during autumn quarter. I walked through the final denouement of a long-term relationship in which I’d long held hope for a shared future. The fullness of my days attending to the numerous purposes I engaged in at DePaul offered a meaningful focus, but the grief of loss lingered in the background, at times coming full force in my mind.

Then, grief showed up in perhaps its most recognizable form: on November 5, my Uncle Roger died. It was the day of the presidential election, a fraught, precipitous day for each of us, and all I could think was “My uncle died today.” While he had been in ill health for quite some time, it was one of those times where things moved quickly, in a matter of days, from hospice care to his passing. My uncle and his immediate family live in northeast Ohio; my closest family members live in the suburbs of Chicago. So, on a weekday, it wasn’t feasible to be together. I didn’t have anyone in the immediate vicinity or in the schedule of my day to hug me. I was deeply sad and felt rather alone.

But when grief shows up, so, too, does love.

In the days following my uncle’s passing, I shared with colleagues about the loss; I received more than one hug. I even shared with one of my classes, and a room full of students offered looks and words of compassion and comfort. On November 13, I attended the Gathering of Remembrance hosted by the Division of Mission and Ministry. While I feel like a well-connected DePaul community member at this point, this was the first time I had attended. I’d considered going in past years but hadn’t been able to fit it into my schedule. This year also required some schedule adjustment to make it work, but now that I was experiencing loss, this special event came just when I needed it most.

At the event, I saw many faces I know and many I have come to cherish. Most were people from various parts of my “extra-curricular” life at DePaul, that is, not part of my official job description in the Writing Center but connected to me through engagement in our community. The staff members from Mission and Ministry hosted the event with such reverence, grace, and hospitality. The love in the room, even amid our tears, was palpable and comforting. At that point, I hadn’t yet seen anyone in my family since my uncle’s passing, but there I was surrounded by my Vincentian family nonetheless.

My purposefully busy autumn quarter ended with great fulfillment for me. My students were largely successful in their courses, and grades have been submitted. The Communications Committee of Staff Council has collaboratively published three newsletters to date. The training for FY@broad is complete, and I am ready to begin winter quarter with preparing an intrepid group of students for our trip to Ireland over spring break. I continued therapy and reflection, and my heart has started to recover. I said yes to the beautiful invitation for community when faced with loss.

The people within my Vincentian family and the DePaul community are the throughline—the accompaniment we offer to one another is beyond what I ever could have imagined when I first came here. It must be, as Saint Louise believed, that our unions to God and to one another are “… established in us through no action of our own in a manner known only to God.” God knew what he was doing in bringing me to DePaul and in bringing the DePaul community to flourish in my life.

Considerations for Reflection:

  • How is being purposefully busy different from just being busy? Do you see yourself engaging in being purposefully busy?
  • How have you experienced love in times of grief?

Reflection by: Erin Herrmann, Associate Director, Writing Center

[1] L.531B, “To Sister Carcireux,” July 18 (1656), Spiritual Writings of Louise de Marillac, 514. Available at:  https://via.library.depaul.edu/ldm/.

Love Shows Up in Community

Updates, resources, and events highlighting the integration of DePaul’s Vincentian mission into the daily life and work of the university community.

 

MISSION MONDAY

Love Shows Up in the Community

Consider being purposefully busy and the invitation therein to embrace the beauty and love of community that emerges. READ MORE

 

 

 


VINCENTIAN HERITAGE JOURNAL

A new special edition of Vincentian Heritage features papers presented at the conference Becoming a Church of the Poor: The Vincentian Charism and Reform  is now available online. LEARN MORE

 

 

 

 


UPCOMING EVENTS

SAVE THE DATE

Faculty and Staff are Invited…

Join us for a conversation with Dr. Kelly Schmidt, public historian from Washington University, as she shares her research on the history of the Catholic Church and enslaved people in the United States. Followed by lunch and thoughtful discussion. Don’t miss this meaningful event! RSVP HERE 

 

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Wrestling with God

Updates, resources, and events highlighting the integration of DePaul’s Vincentian mission into the daily life and work of the university community.

MISSION MONDAY

Wrestling with God

Pastel Faces Merged. Abstract image.
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UPCOMING EVENTS

SAVE THE DATE

Across the DMM, we are working hard to bring even more meaningful opportunities for connection and reflection to campus. Mark your calendar for the following important events in early 2025!

  • Lunch with VincentWednesday, January 22
    Faculty and staff are invited to join us for the first “Lunch with Vincent” event of the new year at the LPC Student Center! Join us for meaningful discussions inspired by Vincentian values. Registration info to follow.
  • Foundation Day CelebrationThursday, January 23
    Join us in commemorating the 408th anniversary of the Congregation of the Mission. Enjoy snacks, interactive activities, and the reveal of the 2025 Shared Coin while reflecting on DePaul’s Vincentian legacy​.
  • Catholic Mass & Lunch: Thursday, January 23
    All faculty and staff are invited to join us at the Loop Campus for a special Foundation Day Mass. Celebrate with a lunch following the service as we reflect on our shared values and mission.

Additional details and RSVP information will be available soon. We hope that you will join us!

Wrestling with God

Exactly eighteen years ago, on this day, December 9th, I became the first woman in my family to chant publicly from the Torah. I still remember the opening words like a catchy song.

In Vayishlach, the Torah portion for this week, there are two brothers—twins—Jacob and Esau, who never really get along. One is smooth, one is hairy. One is scheming, one is brusque. In fact, they wrestle together in the womb. Jacob tricks his nearly blind father into giving him the blessing that belongs to Esau as the firstborn. The brothers’ relationship is a disaster from the get-go.

Jacob eventually settles in Canaan, with status, material wealth, and many offspring. Perhaps out of fear, perhaps because he truly misses his brother (the Torah often lets us infer emotional subtext), Jacob invites Esau to reconcile with him. The night before Esau’s arrival, Jacob finds himself alone, wrestling with an angel.

Hold up. Wrestling with an angel?

Was he hallucinating? Was he having a bad case of sleep paralysis?

In the Torah, it says that Jacob came panim-el-panim (Hebrew for “face-to-face”) with God.

What does it mean to come face-to-face with God? When was the last time you felt God’s presence? Was it during a moment of tranquility, connection, solitude, despair? Do you ever wrestle with God? Perhaps with the concept of God itself?

There are, of course, many interpretations, from rabbis and scholars, about what Jacob endured that night. But here’s mine: Jacob, alone in the dark, finally faces himself. He wrestles with his conscience. He admits to himself that he has, in some way, wronged his brother.

One of the Vincentian values we espouse at DePaul is humility. And not just humility when it comes to our successes or material possessions, but humility in the context of our personal and communal relationships. Saint Vincent de Paul writes, “You must ask God to give you power to fight against the sin of pride which is your greatest enemy—the root of all that is evil, and the failure of all that is good.”[1]

“Sin” and “failure” are charged words that don’t always sit well with me. But Saint Vincent had a good point. Holding onto our pride—nursing past resentments, harboring the belief that we are always right—detracts from our ability to empathize and see the humanity in those who hold different perspectives from us.

It’s a vicious cycle: when we can’t see the humanity in others, it’s hard for others to see the humanity in us.

The morning after Jacob wrestles with God, Esau approaches him in the desert, and, in an unexpected turn of events, forgives him. The brothers fall into one another’s arms, weeping. In a deep act of humility, Esau declines the many gifts Jacob offers him, but Jacob insists, telling his brother that seeing his face is like “seeing the face of God.”[2]

Panim-el-panim. Face-to-face. We can only really glimpse the divine in others when we come face-to-face with ourselves. Because we only exist in relationship. Never alone. And there are always angels.

Reflection Questions

  1. When was the last time you came face-to-face with someone who deeply disagreed with you?
  2. When was the last time you came face-to-face with yourself?

Reflection by: Kayla Schneider-Smith, Assistant Director, Religious Diversity & Pastoral Care and Jewish Life Chaplain

 

[1] “St. Vincent de Paul—You Must Ask God to Give You Power to Fight Against the Sin of Pride,” Catholic Digest Magazine, 14 October 2021, https://www.catholicdigest.com/from-the-magazine/quiet-moment/‌st vincent-depaul-you-must ask-god-to-give-you-power-to-fight-against-the-sin-of-pride/.

[2] Genesis 33:10, The Contemporary Torah (Jewish Publication Society, 2006), https://‌www.‌sefaria.‌org/‌Genesis.33.11?lang=bi&aliyot=0.

A Season of Hope, Peace, Love, and Joy

Updates, resources, and events highlighting the integration of DePaul’s Vincentian mission into the daily life and work of the university community

Saints Vincent and Louise lived in tumultuous times but committed themselves to bringing peace, love and joy into their world.

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UPCOMING EVENT

SPACE IS STILL AVAILABLE!

DePaul faculty and staff are invited to join us for an afternoon of reflection, art, and hospitality as we consider various images, forms, meanings, and styles of dialogue. A guided tour of the Art Institute as well as meaningful conversation and a tasty meal are all included.

We hope to see you!

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A Season of Hope, Peace, Love and Joy

Reflection by: Rev. Diane Dardón, Director, Pastoral Care and Religious Diversity

Several weeks ago, a crowd gathered to celebrate the holidays at DePaul’s annual tree lighting ceremony. This year the celebration continued as hundreds made their way from the tree lighting to the Lincoln Park Student Center to participate in Holidays Around the World. As part of DePaul’s commitment to honoring and supporting the spiritual and religious dimensions of our community, this event gave students an opportunity to learn about the multifaith and interconvictional traditions that so many within the university community embrace. Nearly 600 students engaged in activities or sampled the holiday foods from a multitude of faith or spiritual traditions. One of the Christian traditions that was highlighted in Holidays Around the World was Advent.

As a child, I loved Advent! I did not understand that Advent was celebrated in many Christian churches on the four Sundays leading up to Christmas. I didn’t realize that this was a Christian liturgical season that marked the beginning of the Christian calendar. I had no clue that the four candles on the Advent wreath that were lit week by week each carried an Advent message of hope, peace, love, or joy. Instead, I loved Advent because I knew it meant that we needed to get ready for Christmas: trees needed to be cut down and decorated, cookies needed to be baked and iced, and lists of Christmas wishes needed to be sent off to dear Santa. I knew that when the Advent wreath magically appeared at the front of the church, we had a lot to do in preparation for Christmas.

For Christian communities that embrace Advent, it is, indeed, a time of preparing for Christmas. But the preparation is not about wrapping gifts or putting up decorations. Instead, Advent is known as a season for preparing one’s heart for the birth of Christ. And more importantly, it is a time of waiting and watching for the coming of the Kingdom of God, a time when all will know hope, peace, love, and joy.

Unfortunately, as we begin this Advent season, we are also deeply embedded in a season of tumult and strife. In these times, many may find themselves watching and waiting for the things that Advent promises but struggling because of a sense of hopelessness, a keen awareness of a world that is not engulfed in peace, and disappointment because joy in a hurting world seems impossible and love for neighbor is thwarted by differences or indifference. It is in times such as these that “God offers us the saints both for our imitation and comfort. We can imitate their spiritual strengths and take comfort in their difficulties.”[1]

For the Vincentian community, we look to Saint Vincent and Saint Louise and are reminded that they, too, lived in tumultuous times. During their lives, Paris was growing daily with masses of people flooding into the city. There was political unrest, with royalty being forced to flee their homes and responsibilities. Invasions and social unrest caused strain on the military. Religious differences caused great schisms among the people. Natural disasters, such as tremendous flooding, increased the societal issues of

poverty, homelessness, crime, and overflowing prisons. Amid this tumult, Vincent and Louise lived in hope and committed their waking moments to helping bring peace, joy, and love into their world. They worked tirelessly to be the very ones who ushered in a new Kingdom, a transformed world.

In this season of watching, waiting, and preparing for a transformed world, we are encouraged to imitate Vincent and Louise. As imitators, we do not lose heart but instead become agents of transformation, encouraging hope in ourselves and others, working toward peace in our communities and the world, and offering love and spreading joy daily.

Things to ponder:

  1. How can you transform your own world? Where do you find hope, and how can you share that hope with others?
  2. What can you do to create peace in your world or your community?
  3. How can you express love through your daily actions? Where do you find joy, and how can you share that joy?

Reflection by: Rev. Diane Dardón, Director, Pastoral Care and Religious Diversity

 

[1] Quoted from John E. Rybolt, C.M., Advent and Christmas Wisdom from St. Vincent de Paul (Liguori, MO: Liguori Publications, 2012), 128 pp.

Bereavement Notice: Danielle Kubicz

Sadly, we have learned of the death of Danielle Kubicz, mother of Christina Kallenborn of Information Services.  Danielle passed away on November 8 at the age of 78.  She is survived by her husband of 55 years, two children, one grandchild, a sister, and many life-long friends.

Danielle and her husband, Frank, emigrated from Germany after WWII.  Danielle worked for the Chicago Library Association, Greenpeace, and for St Ann’s Parish as the parish secretary from the mid-eighties until her retirement in 2012.  She was an avid fan of rock concerts of the 60’s, a seasoned world traveler, and had a special love for animals and nature, supporting all kinds of wildlife and passing her knowledge to her young children and their friends.  Danielle also loved usual and beautiful things and art, as well as trying unique foods.

 

The family will receive visitors at Heritage Funeral Home, 3117 S. Oak Park Ave, Berwyn, IL, on Thursday, November 14 from 3 p.m. until 8 p.m.  A prayer service is scheduled on Friday, November 15 at 9:00 a.m. at Heritage Funeral Home, directly followed by interment at Resurrection Cemetery, 7201 Archer Road, Justice.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to World Wildlife Fund, The Nature Conservancy, or The Gorilla Fund are appreciated.

A full obituary and online condolences may be found online.

Beyond Polarization: Seeing the God in All of Us

Resources, News, Events and Happenings related to the integration of DePaul’s Vincentian mission into the ongoing life and work of the university community.

Mission Monday

Beyond Polarization: Seeing the God in All of Us

I am writing this reflection in September 2024, well before Election Day, but still in the thick of American political passion. Regardless of the election’s outcome, it’s unlikely that the result

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Upcoming Events

 

Lunch with Vincent 
with Athletics Director DeWayne Peevy

Thursday | October 10th | 11:30 am – 1:00 pm
Lincoln Park Student Center | Room TBD
For DePaul Faculty and Staff

DePaul faculty and staff are invited to an engaging conversation with Vice President and Director of Athletics DeWayne Peevy. He will share how DePaul’s mission shapes his leadership and highlight how the Vincentian spirit continues to thrive within Athletics. Join us for meaningful conversation, abundant community, and a tasty lunch!

RSVP information will be forthcoming. For more details, please contact: tjudge@depaul.edu.

 


 

Thank you to everyone who joined us in celebrating Vincentian Heritage Week 2024!

We hope that all who participated enjoyed the chance to connect with the DePaul community, reflect on personal values, and embrace our shared goals. We extend special thanks to our guest speakers, volunteers, and behind-the-scenes supporters for their invaluable contributions.

As we enter the new academic year, the Division of Mission and Ministry continues its commitment to serving the campus community and the greater good with compassion, care, and inclusivity.

There’s much more to come! Follow us on social media for recaps from VHW 2024 and our ongoiong celebration of the legacy of St. Vincent de Paul. Stay tuned for upcoming events and programs throughout the year!

Bereavement Notice – Paul L. Kraus

With sadness, we have learned of the death of Paul Kraus, the father of Emily Kraus of Global Engagement.  Paul passed away on July 22 at the age of 72.  He was a dedicated and loyal husband to Jane for nearly 44 years and father to Linsey (David) Smith, Emily, and Anne (Becky Biermann) Kraus. One of his favorite roles was grandfather to Mae and Noah Smith, and Millie and Morgan Kraus-Biermann.    

Paul was a high school religion teacher for over 40 years and spent most of those years at Christian Brothers College (CBC) High School, leading students in faith formation and community service.  He brought Team Activities for Special Kids (T.A.S.K.) to CBC and led summer camps for youth for over 20 years. He facilitated community service opportunities for students to St. Augustine soup kitchen, drove a food bus to those with food insecurities in East St. Louis, started the Big Brother program at CBC, and tutored students at De La Salle Middle School. Bringing his daughters with him to service sites since elementary school inspired them all to pursue careers in education and service to others. In his retirement he got involved with Kairos Retreats for the Potosi Inmates. From there he completed weekly visits to inmates in solitary confinement and came to see the saving Grace of God in all human beings. He was known to be playful, carefree, and a gentle soul.  

A Celebration of life will be held Saturday July 27, 2024 at St. Pius V Catholic Church, 3310 S. Grand, St. Louis, MO 63118. Visitation will be from 10:00 am- 12:00 pm with the funeral following at 12:00 pm. Paul will be interred at Resurrection Cemetery at a Later Date.  

Online condolences may be posted at https://kutisfuneralhomes.com/kraus-paul-l/ 

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations are appreciated at: