The ABCD…Zs of Vincentian Hospitality

Building community begins by building personal human relationships. When we are inviting students to become a part of the DePaul community, our first greeting is to affirm the inherent dignity of the person in front of us by placing our attention on them. We strive to see the person as a gift and sacred mystery. The most important person in the world is the person right in front of you.

Acknowledge the students’ existence
-Greet them with an introduction
-Smile
-Introduce yourself – tell them your role depending on setting
-Focus on good eye contact
-Nod and listen

Build a relationship
-Getting to know them:
-Name
-Where they are from
-What they are interested in studying at DePaul, major
-How do they like their experience at DePaul
-What might they be looking to get involved with
-Express your genuine concern for them (ex. I hope you will like it here at DePaul)

Connect them to the community
-Introduce them to another team member or another new student that you have met
-Intentionally introduce to people who share commonalities or help them find similarities
with each other (i.e. people from the same state, same major, etc.)
-Give them guidance to help conversation along

Depart properly
-Intentionally say good bye (ex. It was great meeting you. I’ll see you…)
-Repeat their name

Zero them in
-Connect and direct students to organizations, programs, events, services that match their interest/needs for active engagement at DePaul. This can only be done once we have an understanding of who the student is.

One thought on “The ABCD…Zs of Vincentian Hospitality

  1. I began journaling when I was about twenty, I reached 64 last calendar year, and should the good lord be willing, 65, May, next. I was just this morning introduced to this article by my beloved husband of 30 years, on (this is not yelling) HOW to write in journal, which he, himself, does not keep, unless it’s a secret I don’t know about. I try to not be interperet (sp) his advice as sharing or being directive. At the end of day, last night, after nestling into bed, he suggested that I do some writing, at night, with the little night reading lamp clipped to the page of my new journal. Sometimes, I write daily, but more often without a schedule, but when I can relax and do same.

    Terrific article and I will sally forth. Draining disdain from my fingers, and dripping hope and logic into my heart.

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